Family Dynamics and the role it plays in Child Behaviour…

Parenting is hard! Really hard!

Initiation into Parenting, protecting and raising our children and then navigating the process of letting them go into the big wide world is one of the most powerful school’s we’ll ever experience!

Family dynamics can play a huge role in child behaviour. When our child is acting out, not sleeping, having tummy troubles or something along those lines, we often look at what’s wrong with the child? And this may cause us to react in a way we aren’t proud of! What matter’s most is what we do next.

When our child displays behaviour that triggers us, it’s an opportunity to explore why we had this experience… Identifying and acknowledging our reaction to our child’s behaviour, is more powerful than any toddler taming or parenting hack!

When we can release our desire to have our child behave or be a certain way, we unlock the most powerful gift for both parent and child, Free Will.

Now this desire about our child’s behaviour is not entirely our fault, so don’t go hating on yourself just yet! This can stem from years of conditioning during your own childhood and how you were parented, watching family and friends parent their children, and even ancestral & cultural ideals about child behaviour that have been passed down through your DNA lineage.

So what does this look like?

Perhaps your child displays an outburst at dinner and refuses to finish their entire plate of food, you may hear your parent’s words come out of your mouth ‘You will sit there until you’ve eaten it all!’, and silently you’re shocked because that’s not you!

This pattern and trigger may have been created during your own childhood, this can easily be cleared using Kinesiology and I can help you develop skills to learn to support your child through their behaviour pattern.

If you are having trouble with your child’s behaviour, and it’s taking it’s toll on your own health and wellbeing, perhaps Kinesiology can help you deal with the stress load and offer a new way of perceiving the situation, in order to move forward and resolve the issue.